When we ask people ‘permission’ to share our thoughts, we treat them with respect, and their defenses come down. Here’s a way to transition your conversation…
“I’m working on a personal assignment and wonder if I could ask you a question?” If they agree, ask… “What would you say is the greatest thing that has ever happened to you?”
People invariably smile. Why? It taps into their memory archives and brings up pleasant thoughts.
After they finish their story, then ask… “May I share the greatest thing that has ever happened to me?”
Be brief. Sow the seed of the Gospel in around 60 seconds; that’s a One-Minute Witness. A brief story will help keep your friend engaged.
Now it’s time to start your story….
